When it comes to the show you should know that Tom likes it when you call in with pre-planned comedy bits, preferably in a funny voice.
As for the board: Respect is the name of the game. Respect the users, respect the host and moderators and respect the guests who come on the show. I've been listening for a few years but only recently started hanging around this place and I have to tell you it's the best place of it's kind. You will find no better group of fans than the Friends of Tom. Get to know these people, read their posts, follow them on Twitter and listen to them because there are some amazing people here. I am proud to be in such great company and i think you will be too. Welcome and enjoy.